We somehow thinks that when you love it must be perfect, it must be peaceful. No cheating and lying. We have to give time for the person we love, show what we feel, and let him/her know how much they mean to us. It is like a fairytale stories. It is a relationship of a lifetime.
A nourished relationship. A perfect one. As i observed, these are the wishes of those singles to have. A boyfriend, who can understand them and would love them truly.
But we are not living in a fairyland, that all those fairytale stories are true.Fairytale is just a fruit of one's immature mind, who wanted to escaped in this cruel real world.And are refusing to open their eyes. Dreaming to have a perfect relationship is the hardest thing to attained. I truly believe that having a relationship is not about having a perfect one love, but being in love is the most precious thing to have in this world. Regardless of all those pain and tears that you shed. But seeing someone smiling and making a step is the best effort to share. Regardless of what you feel. Because we strongly believe that love is unselfish.
"I like to make my self believe that Planet Earth turns slowly, its hard to say that i'd rather stay awake when am asleep. Cause everything is never as it seems when i fall asleep"-the owl city/ fireflies-
This is just one proof, that facing the real life is hard, how much more having a relationship? Loving someone is a choice, and we should know that when you love you will be ready to get hurt. But that doesn't mean you have to stop from loving. Instead, is to buckle up your self, and be excited for next person to come in your life. We might hurt someone else heart, but it doesn't mean we never love them. It doesn't we just want the to cry. It doesn't mean we want them to mourned. It just shows how much we cared for them. It is not easy to see someone's eyes crying. But that even makes us love them more!
Because the reason why life survives, is love. And the reason of love survives, is life. Therefore the equation would be: "life+love=happiness".
Let us not be weary, nor get tired of loving, it is the essence of life. To love is a greatest fulfillment that human had ever achieved. We are not perfect. LOVE LOVE LOVE.........