We somehow thinks that when you love it must be perfect, it must be peaceful. No cheating and lying. We have to give time for the person we love, show what we feel, and let him/her know how much they mean to us. It is like a fairytale stories. It is a relationship of a lifetime.
A nourished relationship. A perfect one. As i observed, these are the wishes of those singles to have. A boyfriend, who can understand them and would love them truly.
But we are not living in a fairyland, that all those fairytale stories are true.Fairytale is just a fruit of one's immature mind, who wanted to escaped in this cruel real world.And are refusing to open their eyes. Dreaming to have a perfect relationship is the hardest thing to attained. I truly believe that having a relationship is not about having a perfect one love, but being in love is the most precious thing to have in this world. Regardless of all those pain and tears that you shed. But seeing someone smiling and making a step is the best effort to share. Regardless of what you feel. Because we strongly believe that love is unselfish.
"I like to make my self believe that Planet Earth turns slowly, its hard to say that i'd rather stay awake when am asleep. Cause everything is never as it seems when i fall asleep"-the owl city/ fireflies-
This is just one proof, that facing the real life is hard, how much more having a relationship? Loving someone is a choice, and we should know that when you love you will be ready to get hurt. But that doesn't mean you have to stop from loving. Instead, is to buckle up your self, and be excited for next person to come in your life. We might hurt someone else heart, but it doesn't mean we never love them. It doesn't we just want the to cry. It doesn't mean we want them to mourned. It just shows how much we cared for them. It is not easy to see someone's eyes crying. But that even makes us love them more!
Because the reason why life survives, is love. And the reason of love survives, is life. Therefore the equation would be: "life+love=happiness".
Let us not be weary, nor get tired of loving, it is the essence of life. To love is a greatest fulfillment that human had ever achieved. We are not perfect. LOVE LOVE LOVE.........
Thank you!
2/22/2010
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Well, the imaginary frequently saves me. And I don't want to be an ingrate, so I carry it on my shoulder everyday. :)
ReplyDeleteManech: wow, awesome, that is cool. thank you buddy..
ReplyDeletekorek ka..love is like a war..easy to begin but hard to end..so when you fall inlove choose the one who is willing to fight with you until the end..
ReplyDeleteFairy Tales arent free!
ReplyDeleteTrouble is part of your life, and if you don't share it, you don't give the person who loves you enough chance to love you enough...
ReplyDeleteThe best relationship is the one in which your love for each other exceeds your need for each other.
ayu: yeah tama ka talaga.. minsan we are selfish, but we cannot deny the fact it is hard to make the relationship grow, if we don't encounter fights and mis understanding.
ReplyDeleteArvin: mahirap mg love arvin, pero napaksarap..
ReplyDeleteChyng: Well spoken!
ReplyDeletefiel-kun: whoah, you hit that balls!
ReplyDeletei maybe totally wrecked right now.. i know it will take time to heal.. but i still want to believe in those fairy tales and i still believe that someday somehow my dreamlover will come and rescue me.. waaaaaaaahhh..
ReplyDeletepastilan aning gugma.. lol
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