We always dreamed to be somebody someday. To be like those people that we idolized the most. In other words, we dreamed to be professional someday, that dream was so sweet to hear in our ears and a wonderful thing for our hand. It is like a diamond that girls were wishing to have it, and it is like a car for boys that every time they see it, they were shouting one day soon they would owned something like that. Well we can wish and dream. The drive that we have inside help us to be patient to wait, and helped us to be more determined to achieve the word PROFESSIONAL.
And God blesses you so much, you achieve it. The things started to changed, from simple to fabulous, from rent house to a huge condo, from commuting to owning a BMW. So awesome to observed people grow up like this way, the breakthrough was really huge. I am happy for them.
To observed and see them, owning the world with fabulous things, A T M's, travels abroad was so fantastic! Wow, how i wish I can have it. And be like that, one day soon. But living with this things and be with this world was the most horrible life, I am not saying all of them, but somehow we forget who we are when have the power and the money itself. We thought that all people would respect us, and we can grip them easily.
So the things started to changed- and the attitude reaches its intense power. You become arrogant,boastful,unkind to people,you wanted to be the center of the attraction, and most of all you lose the respect that you have for them and for your self. You didn't care of what people feel, and what other thinks about you. It means " you never leave with other peoples' expectation". It is good to have this attitude, but somehow it is just too over for you to used it. That you might hurt some one because of this phrase. When you are in trouble, you used to focus on those bad things that your enemy has. You boast your self. And of course what you had achieve in life.
Is this the lesson that you had learned? In your grade and high school, did your teachers told you to be like this when you will have things that you wished? Did your parents instilled in your mind to be arrogant, once you will be professional? How about your church particularly the priest who baptized you? Friends influenced?
Now, do you deserved to be called as professional? And do you deserved for that great respect?
I think, it is NOT! Well definitely, and exactly its NOT! They never ever told you to do bad things when you get old, instead they taught good things,giving you good words, for you to used it, for your self and of course for people. This is not a competition! This is life, we need to achieved something for our selves, for our family to proud of, but if these things will just make you to be rude, "it is useless to have it". If you will just become stupid and be blinded with these achievements, " throw it" for these are just waste stuff who will probably lead you down.
Always remember that:" being professional never required college degrees, fame, nobleness, awards, and great stuff. It just asked one thing and that is the respect that will helped you realized, how wonderful is the life if you achieved something for all".